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"Suicide" and Blame


"There has long been a crying need to hold bullies responsible for their actions," which force the weak into committing suicide. This is the opening salvo of Globe and Mail's October 13 editorial.

Many might think the editorial is discussing Middle East. However, such a shift in the set norms of addressing international issues is beyond all imaginations.

Before discussing the real issue, let us remind ourselves that all that happens around us is an endless combination and repetition of a few laws of nature. From the genesis and maturation of a planet, and its poise and orbit to a tree's recovering itself from the strong wind, we daily take the laws of nature in operation for granted.

Ignoring some laws might not affect our lives, but paying no heed to those which are strictly related to the life and interaction of nations has serious consequences. For instance, we brush aside the reality that actions are always the results of a chain of causes and sub-causes, which the guilty among us try to make us ignore through spreading misinformation and misplacing the blame.

Committing suicide by individuals, suffering under different forms of occupation and tyranny, is one of the glaringly misinterpreted phenomenons in this regard. We must remember that there are no double standards in nature. Unlike our daily practice, the laws of nature apply equally everywhere and at all levels. We, however, judge things differently and expect different results from the same actions at two different places.

Everyone knows that the blame for the Palestinians, Afghans and now Iraqis' committing themselves to death is squarely placed on the shoulders of their immediate family members and the whole community is collective punished for one person's giving up on life.

The Globe and Mail's October 13 editorial is an interesting reading for understanding the phenomenon called suicide bombing and holding the real culprits responsible for making someone commit him/herself to death.

The editorial discusses the story of a 12-year-old boy who committed suicide after severe bullying a school. The paper strongly criticised the authorities who "went way off course in laying criminal charges against the [boy's] mother." Authors of the editorial believe that "the conviction…merely compounds the tragedy of her son's death." This is where the question arises: Is anyone worried about the compounding tragedies of the oppressed people in Palestine, Afghanistan, Iraq and elsewhere?

The paper believes, "there were multiple failures before the boy took his life." This is an important aspect to look upon. But the question is: Why is the world not ready to count and consider "multiple failures" of those associated with the so-called suicide bombers. Instead, the leading media outlets resort to making fun of the Qur'an (Newsweek, July 28, 2003) and holding Qur'anic verses responsible for the motives behind the oppressed victims' committing themselves to death?

The paper says, the boy who committed suicide "was an easy game for his peers. We must not ignore that living as an "easy game" for peers is much easy than living as an easy game for the Anglo-American or Israeli occupation forces.

The Globe and Mail's editorial recounts the incident of boy's getting "kicked and punched, knocked off the school bleachers….and treated like a 'piece of dirt'." Compare this kind of bullying with the systematic oppression and daily psychological degradation the occupation forces are imposing on successive generations in Palestine. Not to speak of the reports of rapes, strip searches on the road and humiliation of local population by the occupation forces in Iraq.

The Globe and Mail holds the school and the state responsible, saying, "the school failed the boy, so, too, did the state's …child welfare agency" which could not address "the filthy conditions in the [boy's] home." The problem is that no one is ready to do such analysis and apply the same standards on global or regional scale to find out who failed in the case of Palestine or Iraq. Are families of those who take their lives elsewhere in the occupied countries really responsible for the death of their family members which justifies collective punishment of the families and communities as a whole?

If a State, not the mother in this case, is supposed to be held responsible for filthy conditions at a particular home, who are we supposed to hold responsible for the unbearable conditions in a society under foreign occupation?

The Globe and Mail concludes that it is "not illegal to be imperfect as a parent…the time to have dealt with Ms. Scruggs's [boy's mother] imperfection was when her child was alive." It is a good suggestion but if this paper or other western analysts could suggest it for holding US and Israeli occupation authorities from collective punishments.

As the "suicide bombers" are a scapegoat during their unhappy existence under occupation, all Muslims must not be made a scapegoat for bomber's despair and for the failure of all involved to save them.

The Globe and Mail is right in concluding that the "answer to bullying is not for the state to become the biggest bully of all." Similarly, the answer to the Israeli and American bullying on a different scale is not for the UN and the world as a whole to become the biggest bullies and support the aggressors in consolidating their occupation through participation in a fake war on terrorism.

For actions having opposite reactions is a law of nature that we ignore at our peril. It is time we should stop blaming Islam or all Muslims for the actions of a few who prefer death over bearing bullies any more. Courts in Nova Scotia and British Colombia could convict bullies who forced others into committing suicides. We must ask, who is going to convict international bullies?

We may have double standards, but the laws of nature apply equally everywhere. Irrespective of the difference in nature of application due to difference in circumstance, decision of a person persecuted by bullies in Palestine and decision of a victim of bullies in Canada would always remain identical. The only difference is in how we look at these instances at different places

 
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